Coping with bereavement

"All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story or tell a story about them."
Isak Dinesen

I read that quote somewhere else and as we have just lost my father-in-law, I read it as a call to make a page about him. But with the funeral yesterday, it still seems too soon. Then again, I really think I would like to do it today. I don't have to show it to my husband or my dear mother-in-law, yet, for whom it really is too soon.